Last summer in California I met a man who had been a skydiver until, on his nineteenth jump, his parachute failed to open fully and his emergency chute wrapped itself around the partially collapsed main chute. He slammed into a dry lake bed at sixty miles an hour. Doctors thought this broken remnant of a man would never leave his hospital bed. They told him so, and he sank into black despair.
But in the hospital he had frequent visits from another patient, a man whose spinal cord had been severed in an automobile accident. This man would never walk, would never, in fact, move a finger again. But he was always cheerful. "I certainly don't recommend my situation to anyone," he would say. "And yet I can read, I can listen to music, I can talk to people . . . "
And yet: those two words shift the focus from what has been lost to what remains-and to what may still be gained. They gave such hope and determination to the skydiver that he came through his ordeal and today walks without a limp.
Some people confuse acceptance with apathy, but there's all the difference in the world. Apathy fails to distinguish between what can and what cannot be helped; acceptance makes that distinction. Apathy paralyzes the will-to-action; acceptance frees it by relieving it of impossible burdens. Dwight Eisenhower's mother was a deeply religious woman. When the future president was a boy, she would say to him, "Life deals the cards; the way you play them is up to you. There's acceptance in that philosophy - but no hint of apathy.To me the "and yet" part is what inspires me. No matter how bad things may be, we can all say "and yet". And it may be that our "and yet" in spite of our circumstances may help someone who is struggling with similar problems.
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I also have several books going at the same time. Thanks for sharing this encouraging story. I liked the explanation of the difference between apathy and acceptance. That is a good spiritual lesson. Thank you!
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ReplyDelete"and yet"...what a beautiful expression of the potential that lies ahead of us. The message of scripture is to embrace acceptance rather than turn to apathy. Thank you for sharing this wonderful message.
Blessings and peace.
MTJ
This is so powerful, Charlotte and just what I needed to hear today. I love the "and yet" too It is so simple but so very profound on how we need to see our lives. Blessings~
ReplyDeleteWonderful story Charlotte. Someone told me once that the way you really live is after the but...
ReplyDeleteI have Fibromylgia BUT am so blessed that God gives strength moment to moment. Reminds me of the "and Yet"
I enjoyed this very much Charlotte. I think of my late mother and how she lived most of her adult life without sight but she had such a wonderful attitude about what she still could do/enjoy.
ReplyDeleteWishing you a safe and happy weekend. Many thanks to the tremendous job you and Ginger do hosting Spiritual Sundays and the Prayer Requests.
Very inspiring story. I am going to remember those two words..."and yet." I never really thought about them before, but they are filled with hope and thankfulness.
ReplyDeletethis is was so encouraging...and yet...love those words and how you spoke about them. Have a great long weekend Charlotte....the absolute best
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ReplyDeleteYes, those are definitely encouraging words. Reminds me of "But God..." We are blessed to always have hope.
That is, indeed, and inspiring story. "And yet", I never realized those two little words could hold such power. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteTwo powerful little words that offer so much hope. There is nothing that the Lord cannot salvage.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this very inspiring story. Acceptance allows you to move on...
ReplyDeleteAcceptance is the answer to all our problems.
Much Blessings
And yet...that acceptance may be hard, but brings peace in the end.
ReplyDeletePamela
great and encouraging! Introvert to introvert... and yet I love better now than I ever did before Christ. =)
ReplyDeleteWow. What an encouraging post!
ReplyDeleteI's never heard the difference between apathy and acceptance put that way. I want to remember that acceptance distinguishes between what can be done and what cannot.
ReplyDeleteGreat food for thought.
Blessings,
Janis
This was such an encouraging post! "and Yet" is so powerful. I will try to use these words when I start to gravitate towards a weakness or problem.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Annette
This is a very inspiring post.. where many people give up is before the "and Yet".. yet if we all just hang on a little bit longer God will exceed our expectations.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you & thank you for sharing.
Misty
Thank you for this inspiration, Charlotte. I also need to always focus on God's gifts and his blessings.
ReplyDeleteAnd yet...powerful words! Thank you for this inspiring post, Charlotte.
ReplyDeleteHappy memorial day to you and Clif.
Blessings,
Joan
Very encouraging story mrs Charlotte!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reminder to look for our blessings in the midst of our messes!
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